My 12 Year old so wears them all the time, Im getting weary?

You need to get him at least two or three different pairs of shoes. They need more ventilation so that his feet can get air. He is running the risk of foot deformities(long term) because of his shoes being too tight. You need at least a half in to an inch of space from the end of his big toe to the shoe. He also is running the risk of athlete's feet, which everyone in your family will catch from him. Ask him if his feet are itchy or burning these are clic signs of A.T. He is at the age he thinks hw can take care of himself, my 13 year old is the same way. Remind him you are the boss!! Also he is going through a growth spurt right now. You may just want to get two pairs of shoes for now. He will grow pretty quickly between 12 and 14. This is usually when puberty happens, for example their voice will change..Good Luck and tell him it is very important to give your feet room, or permanent damage will occur. You will have to buy him new trainers, but only to wear for sports!!!